I am really grateful for all the suggestions. Many of them are spot on, some aren’t a perfect fit for our needs (and maybe my weaknesses). The transformer I think will work. If I buy two matching inverter-generators, they will surely work paralleled, especially if I were to buy the parallel kit (which I don’t really think is necessary based on Matt’s work). I think it would work stacked also, since the second generator would just see the first generator’s voltage, phase inverted, looking into it’s winding. No point in arguing, since parallel has almost got to work.
The inverter generators should be more efficient at partial load, but the main reason for going that route is what Steve describes. I am mostly healthy, but I am not young. I have a very smart family around me, but not all are electronic tinkerers (like, none), so open the fuel valve and push the button is attractive. As the prepper’s saying goes, two is one and one is none." That’s why two mediums seem a little better than one big one. Theft is not a big issue around here, but times are changing, so quiet and covered seems wise. Steve, I think your big Listeroid is (was?) a marvel, my 6 hp air-cooled is only ~400 pound, plus the 1800 rpm Kohler
generator head. My wife likes robust, but “hold the start button, with the compression release on, let it spin up, close the compression release, release the start button when it makes still more noise and smokes, move the pump control to run, while it bounces around on the shock mounts,” is not a good plan on my part. One open frame inverter-generator would be the same price, roughly, as two quiet ones, with a little more power. I don’t really know about low-load efficiency or gasifying. Anyone have an idea?
The inverter-charger I’d use with this is 4kw, with a big surge capacity. No problem with the well pump, so far, at least in testing. Solar is on the list, and panels stacked in a shed, but there is no perfect place for them, so first the backup with batteries and generator, then the solar.
Maybe I should put in a piston well pump with a hand lever and a jack with a pulley, put a water jacket on the wood stove, and be content. Oh yeah, and candles.